Sentimental thoughts
Sunday, 9 May 2010
, Posted by Shaheen at 13:18
Since my teenage, I've held a big respect and admiration for a kind of girls who are successful both in work and education, supported respected and trusted by their families, not extremely beautiful but beautiful enough to make you feel their femininity, and most importantly, kind and warm.
Because it's the nature of people. we look for the other half, people come people go, those girls find them falling in love with guys. It's not wrong, what is better than finding your soul mate . It completes their personalities and adds an emotional success to their educational and professional success. They fly by wings of happiness, and they deserved it.
Things are not always smooth and perfect, they guy either is fooling around or is not ready yet for commitment, sometime there are differences in understanding the relation, she thought she is a bride while he was only looking for a girl friend.
People are responsible for their decision, obviously, being in a relation is a risky decision, probabilities are many, and the girl has to take her share of the blame, However, Men are able more to get over failed relations, it might be the differences in our physics and hormones, but its clear that girls are more devasteated over missing a possible so-called lover.
She might created unrealistic and different image about the guy, she might loved the guy whom she though he is not whom he is in real. Again, should she get the blame maybe, but this is not my concern here, what I'm saying is her life in the post-relation era, will she spoil the great success she have achieved over years for someone? or should she put aside the happiness in here life just because a guy was different than what she thought he is, and plunge herself in deep sadness and darkness.
A look back at her genuine soul would refresh her memory and makes her recall what really she is. A deep thought with herself would remind her that nobody deserves her tears nor her time spoiling herself over him.
what I think is her pride should take her out of the infinite loop of thoughts and sadness, that if she allows it to do, if she insisted to be devastated and broken over him, then she does not know who is she thus deserves the harm.
Because it's the nature of people. we look for the other half, people come people go, those girls find them falling in love with guys. It's not wrong, what is better than finding your soul mate . It completes their personalities and adds an emotional success to their educational and professional success. They fly by wings of happiness, and they deserved it.
Things are not always smooth and perfect, they guy either is fooling around or is not ready yet for commitment, sometime there are differences in understanding the relation, she thought she is a bride while he was only looking for a girl friend.
People are responsible for their decision, obviously, being in a relation is a risky decision, probabilities are many, and the girl has to take her share of the blame, However, Men are able more to get over failed relations, it might be the differences in our physics and hormones, but its clear that girls are more devasteated over missing a possible so-called lover.
She might created unrealistic and different image about the guy, she might loved the guy whom she though he is not whom he is in real. Again, should she get the blame maybe, but this is not my concern here, what I'm saying is her life in the post-relation era, will she spoil the great success she have achieved over years for someone? or should she put aside the happiness in here life just because a guy was different than what she thought he is, and plunge herself in deep sadness and darkness.
A look back at her genuine soul would refresh her memory and makes her recall what really she is. A deep thought with herself would remind her that nobody deserves her tears nor her time spoiling herself over him.
what I think is her pride should take her out of the infinite loop of thoughts and sadness, that if she allows it to do, if she insisted to be devastated and broken over him, then she does not know who is she thus deserves the harm.
i just love what u wrote! i have nothing else to say other than it's great to hear a guy talking like this, and yes when she look back to the girl she was before all that drama, she'll wake up and move on
Girls naturally dream more of love and marriage, almost every girl had at some point dreamt of her knight in shining armor. Guys fantasize but that's it, most girl have all their future life with a loving husband already planned and in mind. that's why it's hard for some girls to let go, this tends to cloud their vision of their current situation, and they think it's good as long as they're in a relationship, no matter how screwed up it is.