Honor or no honor, same destiny
Thursday 10 June 2010
, Posted by Shaheen at 18:36
It is known that girls who have relations out of marriage knot and got caught or suspected, will be murdered. There are smart girls who do whatever they want but maintain the conservative look and get away with what they have done ...mish mawdo3na.
The new thing here is even girls who are decent, religious and true conservatives go to the same destiny if they decide to decide their future partner by their own, they get the same destiny of girls of caught having sex .....six feet under ...by relative shoots,
A sad story was published in Jordanian media today, for a girl whom was killed by her two cousins just because she refused to marry her cousin and picked another partner, the murder happened in a court where the girl was assumed to tie the knot with her life partner..
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it's sad ..disguisting brutal ..non humane o garaf ygrfna 3ala heak 3esheh
this story reminds me with another one happened in madaba one year ago, when a girl had a relation with a guy and they decided to get married later, which they did, had a baby, her brother's did not forgive her and plotted to kill her in the wedding of her and their bother, the invitation was a trap to caught her, they gave her the illusion that everything is ok and the past has gone with the wind, I'm sure she went to their home happy with full make up...spent the last three nights shopping for a new dress,,when she reached the gate ..she got a 20 bulle worm and blooded welcome.
enty olteeha:garaf ygrfna 3ala heak 3esheh
i think it's wrong to go out with a guy,i think it's disrespectful to date a man especially without your parents knowing about it,but what if you could maintain it in the frame of work or study,and choose him haik min b3eed la b3eed?what ever happened to el 7ob el 3othry??
anyhow even if the girl made a mistake and even if she had sex with a man it is not their right to murder her
why can't she have another chance?why are they authorized to apply her judgment?are they gods?do they never commit sins?
7atta bil islam '3air el mo7sana ma ben7akam 3laiha bel moot(had law eftaradna ino qady shar3y ely 3m ynaffez el 7okom)
so who the hell are they to kill her?
jd jd jd garaf yegref haik 3eesheh!!
by the way..
is "honor" really determined by only that tiny peace of skin??
ino come on!
من مبدأ الأفلام العربيه؛
الراجل مايعيبوش إلا جيبو.. والراجل يغلط زيما بدو.. بس البنت لو غلطت حيكون قطع رقبتها هو النتيجه..
والغلابى إلي بروحو ظلم.. الله يرحمهم..
Dafdoo3ah: what you said raises a good question, is there any chance for decent and healthy female/male relations in our society, I think there is a very small space for such relations especially in area far from Amman.
Rain : somehow yes, people are still thinking its important, people are free with what think but, nobody has the right to take other life for any reason.
The painful irony here is even girls did not lose their virginity, they were murdered, for reason has nothing with honor, they decided just to live their lives with the agreement of their parents, still, this did not protect them form intruding relatives.
aw...dunno what happened but
Rain=dafdoo3ah
lol